Thursday, December 01, 2005

Life is so unpredictable.

Life is so unpredictable. Still rem my both my twins uncle used to be very good in their business, drive big car (mercs) and got a lot of money. But both of them now share the same fate that both biz fail.

The younger of the twins now got depression and is on the verge of commiting suicide. Grow up, escaping cannot salvage the situation, only standing up and facing it does.

My poor Aunt is very stressed in facing him cause they still has a 5 yr old daughter.
I told dad, the cleverest thing and the right thing my uncle have done so far is to have married my aunt. If he does not have her now, he would have died long ago. He forsaked her when she was pregnant and now she could have done the same to him when he is down, but she did not. She is trying her best to stand up for him.

My poor dad is running around trying to resolve their problem when he's got tonnes of them himself. I know he is trying hard to be sane and to help everyone but who helped him in his problems then? He is both mentally and physically tired out by my mom, his mom, his bros and sisters and his own debts. What else you expect a 53 yr old man do? Dad had hours and hours of talk with him and encouraging him and there was once he even spoke to him overnight to encourage him to stand strong till 7-8 am in the morning...

Even after work and coming to fetch us, he dropped by my uncle's office to see if he's working hard or backing out... Then after that, he had another talk with my uncle till late and my aunt had to send us home first to leave the guys to talk at the coffee shop beside his office.

It was already 9pm, so I invited my Aunt to have dinner while waiting for the guys to come. After dinner, QiQi (their daughter) called to see how come her parents still not home yet. I have a feeling that my aunt is rather jealous that QiQi is closer to my uncle and is feeling upset to a certain extent that "QiQi's father" which is my uncle is making her life miserable and now QiQi called her to ask how come she's not home.

Last night, Shawn talked to Dad on the phone till about 1am to see what ideas they can come out to salvage the situation the company is going through and Dad touched a bit about the background of this family and Shawn said that Dad cried... I know Daddy is very tired.. very tired of having so much problems but he is still standing strong!

Can u guys please stand up and fend for yourself? My dad is already old and if he can take all these nonsense and all that he's gone through, what gives u the right of going through a depression and give others problem? Life is not a game... Not u say dun wan to play liao means just give up!

I just hope that all problems will be resolved and Dad can have a better life and retire and have many grandchildren to be with.

Its just a simple wish, is it hard to achieve?

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